Positive Approach

Father: I want you to marry a girl of my choice.
Son: "I will choose my own bride!"
Father: "But the girl is Bill Gates's daughter."
Son: "Well, in that case...OK"

Next Day
Father approaches Bill Gates.
Father: "I have a husband for your daughter."
Bill Gates: "But my daughter is too young to marry!"
Father: "But this young man is a vice-president of the World Bank."
Bill Gates: "Ah, in that case... OK"

Finally Father goes to see the president of the World Bank.

Father: "I have a young man to be recommended as a vice-president. "
President: "But I already have more vice- presidents than I need!"
Father: "But this young man is Bill Gates's son-in-law."
President: "Ah, in that case... OK"

This is how business is done!!

Moral: Even if you have nothing, you can get anything. But your attitude & approach should be positive.

Use... this... in... life

Talk-------Softly


Walk----------Humbly


Eat-------------Sensibly


Breathe------------Deeply


Sleep---------------Sufficiently


Dress-----------------------Smartly


Act--------------------------Fearlessly


Work---------------------------Patiently


Think----------------------------Truthfully


Believe-----------------------------Correctly


Behave---------------------------------Decently


Learn------------------------------------Practically


Plan-----------------------------------------Orderly


Earn-------------------------------------------Honestly


Save---------------------------------------------Regularly


Spend----------------------------------------------Intelligently


Love----------------------------------------------------passaionately


Enjoy--------------------------------------------------------------completely

He who is not Handsome at 20,
Strong at 30
Rich at 40, &
Wise at 50;
Can never be Handsome,Strong, Rich & Wise !!!
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But what is Woman?
Only one of Nature's Blunder.
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It is a woman's business
To get married as soon as possible &
A man's to keep being unmarried as long as he can.
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Youth is a blunder,
Manhood a struggle,
Old age a regret.
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It ain't what a man doesn't know
That makes him a fool,
But what he does know
That ain't so.
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Wives are:
Young men's Mistresses,
Companions for middle age &
Old men's nurses.
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When life is woe,
And hope is dumb,
The world says "Go"
The grave says "Come"
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*4 Boy friends*- A Story Read it

*4 Boy friends*

Once upon a time, there was this girl who had four boyfriends.

She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adored him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.

She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.

She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.

The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great
contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him.

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.'

Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'No way!', replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without another word.

His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?

'No!', replied the 3rd boyfriend. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm
going to marry someone else!'

Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'

'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', replied the 2nd boyfriend. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'

His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated.

Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter
where you go.'

The girl looked up, and there was her 1st boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!.

In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:

Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.

Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth. When you die, it will all go to others.

Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.

And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of
wealth, power and pleasures of the world.

However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you.

Thought for the day:
Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray.

Pass this on to someone you care about - I just did.

Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections. I hope this touched you!

Do not go where the path may lead, go instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.'/*

'Smile it's contagious!'

have a gr8 weekend & cheers

||| Secret to Success |||

 

Life never seems to be the way we want it, but we live it the best way we can.There is  no perfect life, but we can fill it with perfect Moments..

 

To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, or a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.

 

If you have a good name, if you are more often right than you are wrong, if your children respect you, if your grandchildren are glad to see you, if your friends can count on you and you can count on them in time of trouble, if you can face God and say "I have done my best", then you are a success.

 

The secret of getting ahead is getting started...

To All Dear Mothers

 

You are the one who dressed me up, for my first day at school

When I sobbed, yelled and screamed at you, you didn't say a word

And instead, took me to the stop and finally with great difficulties

When I some how sealed on a seat, you experienced eternal bliss in your heart

When the bus began to move, I looked back at your diminishing figure through window

Today when I' hve grown up to face the world, I have

realised why I did so, do you know why?

Because you were the one, who meant all-in-one

Gurukul,hostel and school for me

You were always there when nobody was around

you never gave me a handkerchief, when I sobbed

like a leaking tap

Instead you sat beside me till my moist eyes dried and all the pain was gone

Then you looked into the broken and depressed me

And said Realise your deeds, before you express what you feel

That's why today I'have grown upto, look at myself before pointing out at

some one.

You were always by my side, when I was wrong

To lead me the path, on which I am, supposed to finally walk

you read for me fairy tales and strories that thought me things till I

became capable enough to pick one from bookshelf

You bandaged me when I hurt, you nursed me when I was sick. But you

asked me to face it when I was hit.

You made me strong when I thought I was weak

As I grew up, you never considdred referring to anything to learn of the changes I went through

You were always aware of my secrets untold and all the

thoughts of my mind

If you still don't know who you are?

Ask the priest and he will tell you, you are God

Ask an orphan on the street and he will tell you you are his need

Ask a daughter or a son and they will tell you

You are mom Yes, the best teacher and love on the earth.

 

 

 

"Apologizing does not mean that you are wrong and the other one is right... It simply means that you value the relationship much more than your ego .."
 "Being Kind Is More Important Than Being Right..” 

Why Does Love Hurt So Much ?

Love hurts so much because we allow it to hurt. It's human nature. Getting hurt is a part of life. It’s how you handle the hurt or how you allow it to affect you. When two people are in a relationship there are good times and bad times being in a relationship is a great feeling. 
Knowing that you have a person that loves you is such a wonderful thing. But sometimes people put too much faith in other people and then when that person doesn't live up to the other persons expectations then there are a huge amount of disappointment and hurt. Why do we allow other people to control our emotions? 

A broken heart really is one of the worst feelings in the world. When you find out somebody that you love, somebody that you gave such a huge part of yourself to betray you is indescribable. You feel this pain in the middle of your chest and it literally just aches. It hurts oh so bad! And then the tears and crying set in. opinion you do need to allow yourself to grieve. You need to accept everything that has happened and then you just need to look inside yourself to find the courage and strength needed to move on. This is so much easier said than done. It is a part of life. One thing we have to learn is when one door closes three more usually open. 

Everything happens for a reason. You must be strong and simply commit to yourself.

A few of the following quotes bring out the heartaches caused by love in the most striking manner.

If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have.

All things we go through; the happiness, sadness, pain and heartbreak make us who we are!

"I don't miss him; I miss who I thought he was."

"Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."
"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.
"What man's mind can create, man's character can control."

One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.

If love is so important to have that one doesn't want to lose it, why is it when we find true love we often don't notice it?

When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving others. 

That is what the world calls a romance.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, sometimes it hurts.

Where there is love, there is pain.

There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations.

BROKEN HEART==human beings